The starting point
A spiritual practice should leave room for your beliefs, questions, and boundaries. You might find meaning in contemplation, prayer, nature, community, or service. There is no requirement to report an extraordinary experience or follow a single definition of growth.
Contemplation: Deepening Self-Awareness through Reflection
Contemplation is the practice of quiet, focused thought, often centered on meaningful questions or ideas. Unlike meditation, which aims to clear the mind, contemplation encourages you to ponder and explore. This practice can lead to personal insights, helping you understand your values, purpose, and desires on a deeper level.
After facing a personal challenge, you set aside time to contemplate its impact. You ask yourself questions like, “What have I learned from this experience?” and “How can I grow from this?” Through contemplation, you gain clarity and develop a sense of resilience.
Choose a specific question or theme for each contemplation session. Focusing on one idea allows you to explore it deeply, making the experience more enriching.
Choose a meaningful question: Reflect on ideas that resonate with you personally.
Sit in silence: Allow yourself the space to think deeply without distractions.
Journal your thoughts: Writing can help clarify insights and preserve them for future reflection.
Reflect regularly: Make contemplation a habit to support continuous growth.
Put the idea in context
Begin with short sessions, gradually increasing the duration as you become more comfortable. Meditation isn’t about achieving a perfect state but about practicing presence and acceptance.
Choose a quiet space: Set up a comfortable, peaceful environment.
Focus on your breath: Use your breath as an anchor to remain present.
Adapt the practice
You may shorten or skip an exercise, keep your eyes open, or choose an external object of attention. Stop if the practice makes you more distressed, dizzy, or uncomfortable. A personal reflection exercise is optional and should not delay appropriate care for persistent symptoms.
Sources & further reading
- NCCIH: Meditation and mindfulness—effectiveness and safetywww.nccih.nih.gov